a journey back to myself - one story, one step, one breath at a time.

VFK

I’m Vidrale Franklin-Kelly - mother, wife, doctor, daughter, sister, friend, educator, proud introvert, and love rock. I’m also a woman deeply committed to living with more peace and purpose. With over 25 years of leadership experience in public education, I spent much of my life chasing impact while quietly losing pieces of myself along the way. I left a toxic job hoping for rest, but instead, I poured myself right back into motherhood and work; still stuck in the cycle of doing too much and feeling too little. Healing, I’ve learned, isn’t a destination; it’s a daily practice. Now, I’m slowing down, listening to what my spirit has been whispering all along: I matter, too. This blog is where I share my journey, my reflections, and the small, sacred moments that keep me grounded. It’s not about having it all together. It’s about finally choosing myself and letting that be enough.

Whispers Within

  • Protecting My Peace - Even from Myself

    This post is about learning to protect my peace, not just from external stress, but from my own habits and inner pressure. It explores how setting boundaries with myself has become an essential part of my healing and growth.

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  • For My Daughters, With Love and Boundaries

    In this post, I reflect on how my journey of healing, boundary-setting, and self-care is shaping not just my life but my daughters’ lives too. As I learn to choose peace and prioritize my well-being, I see Harlem and Hunter doing the same. They speak up for themselves, protect their energy, and embrace joy without guilt. What started as a personal transformation is becoming the foundation for how they grow, thrive, and love themselves.

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  • 9 Back-to-School Hacks That’ll Save You Time (and Sanity)

    This post shares 9 practical back-to-school hacks to help busy families and anyone resetting their routines save time and reduce stress. From Sunday resets to shared calendars and car kits, these tips are designed to bring more calm and less chaos to your weekdays.

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